May 14, 2013
"Love undocumented is love unadvertised and unexploited; it is love that will fade gently, like a photograph, instead of creeping up, algorithmically, like a Google image search result."

Luddite love 

by Claire L Evans

April 10, 2013

traditional marriage - pretty cute hey?

April 7, 2013
"we have all hurt someone tremendously, whether by intent or accident. we have all loved someone tremendously, whether by intent or accident. it is an intrinsic human trait, and a deep responsibility, i think, to be an organ and a blade. but, learning to forgive ourselves and others because we have not chosen wisely is what makes us most human. we make horrible mistakes. it’s how we learn. we breathe love. it’s how we learn. and it is inevitable."

n. waheed (via nezua)

Feel this. Want this. And still wondering: How do we forgive for ourselves and truly let go when people who’ve caused harm aren’t ready to take accountability? For me, breathing love ebbs and flows, always there, and sometimes stronger.

(via dearsensatewitness)

it is an intrinsic human trait, and a deep responsibility, i think, to be an organ and a blade.” So much of what I’ve been thinking about lately has revolved around this duality; amazing to have it stated so poetically. 

(via andlace)

“an organ and a blade.”

(Source: miguu, via andlace)

March 3, 2013
Lesbia Hartford 1915

Lesbia Hartford 1915

February 15, 2013
feministdisney:

I’m shipping you… and me!
I just wasted a lot of time in photoshop… bleh

luv it

feministdisney:

I’m shipping you… and me!

I just wasted a lot of time in photoshop… bleh

luv it

(via fuckyeahhardfemme)

February 15, 2013
wifwolf:

alt text: national enjoy nothing day

wifwolf:

alt text: national enjoy nothing day

February 15, 2013
This is beautiful.
[image description: beaming person with shoulder length brown hair standing in front of Valentines backdrop saying “We belong together”. They are holding a big cardboard heart sign that reads “IMMIGRANTS BELONG HERE BECAUSE Our homes are hard won”]

This is beautiful.

[image description: beaming person with shoulder length brown hair standing in front of Valentines backdrop saying “We belong together”. They are holding a big cardboard heart sign that reads “IMMIGRANTS BELONG HERE BECAUSE Our homes are hard won”]

(Source: songsouth, via sassyfrasscircus)

February 14, 2013
"An intimate relationship does not banish loneliness. Only when we are comfortable with who we are can we truly function independently in a healthy way, can we truly function within a relationship. Two halves do not make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship: it takes two wholes."

Patricia Fry  (via bearnaked)

Don’t be afraid to be single!

(via queerbrownxx)

Being single is literally the best, most strengthening and fulfilling thing that ever happened to me. I don’t think I’m even exaggerating.

(via zenjamaican)

February 14, 2013

youvebeen-loki-d:

youvebeen-loki-d:

valentines day is coming up soon so you better come clean about your love for me

image

dont all confess your love at once

My wun and only New Yearz Resolution is to start replying to my asks, soo…

(via ktspit)

February 14, 2013
Maybe one day I will tell you about how my relationship with a poly dude was fucked but I've never known the words for it and basically it is everything that is in the left-hand column in this post

the-metres-gained:

I got shit like this

My fears, insecurities, and jealousy are your responsibility. I have the right to control your behavior and/or the behavior of your other partners in order to manage my fears and insecurities.

and I wasn’t even the one fucking anybody else. I was barely even interested in anybody else. He was fucking multiple women and yet it was my fault that I ‘left’ him and had the audacity to meet someone of whom he was jealous for coffee and with whom I struck up a friendship.

needless to say when that ship sailed, that friend was there for me.

OMG Poly dudes please CHECK YOURSELVES and most of the time, FUCK OFF!!

My relationship(z) with a poly dude was pretty fucked up too. Don’t wanna talk about it right here and now but Sisterhood Against Shit Poly Men 5eva xxx